Some of us are trying to force relationships that God didn’t ordain or that He orchestrated just for a season. Is the season over? “If it don’t fit, don’t force it.” You’re playing tug of war with your spirit and your flesh. We can love others without being in relationship with them. We are trying to force spiritually dangerous relationships. Holy Spirit said to “let it go.” You may be headed in different directions. You may have different perspectives. There is just something about you they just can’t accept. You feel the need to prove yourself and justify who you are. Subliminal remarks are made about you but you still try to pry your way into their hearts. 

Ultimately, if your spirits don’t agree, it is unsafe for you to stay in relationship. They will be a hindrance to your next spiritual level. Pray. God will direct your path and give you a way of escape. If God says let it go, listen. Dr.J.