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Who is Tied to Your Yoke? by Dr.J.

Who is in the bow of the other side of the yoke to which you’re tied? Are you equally yoked? If it could possibly cause you to compromise your faith and ultimately your relationship with God, why hook up with someone with whom you’re unequally yoked? Yes love. Yes minister. Yes witness. But do not become spiritually (or physically tied) with unbelievers or “said” believers whose life doesn’t line up with their profession. 

Can light partner up with darkness? Can righteousness and wickedness hang out? Can Jesus and the devil be harmonious with each other? Someone is chasing someone down right now for him to slide his neck into the bow of your yoke to hold you back, weigh you down, and ultimately delay your destiny because of your own disobedience.

You two aren’t even headed in the same direction. You’re not spiritually strong enough to pull a hardened heart. Stop fooling yourselves that God wants you to stay so you can fix it. God said separate yourselves right now. You have too much at stake to stay tied. The load we have to carry is burdensome enough without dead and deadly weight. Untie yourself now.

2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be unequally bound together with unbelievers [do not make mismatched alliances with them, inconsistent with your faith]. For what partnership can righteousness have with lawlessness? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

But then, Jesus said for us to take His yoke upon us because His yoke is easy and His burden is light. So, once we are free from the yoke of the world, we can connect to the yoke of Jesus. Dr.J.

Matthew 11:28–30 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

 

“Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties” by Dr.J.

Why can’t I move on? Why hasn’t God sent me someone yet? Why am I struggling with loving the person I’m with? Why can’t I keep him out of my dreams? Why can’t I make love to my wife without fantasizing about my past women? Why do I have to shake my head feverishly in an attempt to get images of innumerable exes out of my head, to no avail? Why is it difficult to be satisfied with “normal regular relations” opposed to strange, abnormal, defiling and debasing relations? Why is it difficult for me to be pleased in my marital relationship? Could it be that you’re struggling with ties from previous relationships and relations?

The Holy Spirit defined ungodly souls ties as spiritual connections that have developed from ungodly physical connections. We’ve been involved with men or women who are not our spouses and the relationships or relations have left a spiritual residue. The residue makes it difficult to move on freely in our God ordained relationships because we haven’t been purified and purged from our pasts.

The Holy Spirit gave me the process for breaking ungodly soul ties: 1) Break the physical ties. 2) Make up your mind. 3) Increase your spiritual warfare.

Break the physical ties. You have to stop having sexual relationships with people who do not spiritually belong to you. God ordained marriage between one woman and one man. To have sexual relations in any other relationship is out of order. When we do, we suffer from a sticky thick spiritual residue. We have to break other physical connections too such as  keeping pictures, texts, emails, clothing, or other items from persons from our past. Break all physical ties.

You must also have a made up mind. You cannot continue to straddle the fence about whether or not you’re going to let go or go back “just one more time.” If your mind isn’t resolute, the rest of you won’t be either. The way you are transformed is by the renewing of your mind. If you continue to think on the worldly things with the people from your past, your mind won’t be transformed and it can’t be renewed. If the Holy Spirit has already revealed to you that the relationship it not designed by the Creator for you, what else is there to think about? Make up your mind and be obedient. Let it go.

Finally, read, study, pray, listen to the Holy Spirit and fast. When dealing with strongholds in your life that have been impossible for you to overcome with your regular prayer life, you have to intensify your spiritual warfare. Add fasting and confessions to your spiritual warfare to breakthrough the power of the enemy with these spirits of lust and other spirits that have been haunting you. If the spiritual tie isn’t created by God, it has to be broken. You don’t want to be connected with anyone God didn’t create for you. It is time to let go. Dr.J.

Click here  to watch the video the Holy Spirit gave me entitled “Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties.”