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Empowerment

“God Sees Your Broken Heart” by Dr.J.

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Woman of God, God sees your broken heart. He knows how hurt you are that you trusted “man” with everything you have – your heart, mind, soul, time, resources, and your body. 

God knows that you feel thrown away and used now that “man” has no more use for you. He sees when “man” mistreats you, unfriends you, ignores your texts, leaves you when you need him most, snaps at you like you are an animal, is downright mean to you, and uses your sisters just like he used you. 

He sees you alone in bed at night fighting the spirits “man” left behind. 

He sees how your resources have been drained and strained from trying to buy love, support, and companionship. He sees how you opened your heart and your legs just to receive love – if only for three minutes.

He heard you say, “just spend the night, please.” He heard you pleading for a public date. He heard you begging not to be kept a secret anymore. He heard him answer, “No!”

God wants to heal you. He doesn’t want you to ever put another man before Him. He doesn’t ever want you to choose a man that He didn’t choose for you. He says that you are not to be toyed with or played for a fool. You are His princess.

Carry yourself like a queen. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or what was done to you. It doesn’t matter what you may have contracted. It doesn’t matter if your last night was last night. It doesn’t matter if “man” doesn’t want you any more. God still wants you. 

Please don’t cry. God has a plan for you. You’re beautiful. You’re necessary for the kingdom. God sees your broken heart but more importantly, God wants to mend your broken heart. Let Him. Dr.J. #daughtersofaKing

Marriage Ministry

“Tell Him He Has Reached a Dead End” by Dr.J.

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Single wives, yes you can suddenly say, “I’m no longer a weekend girl; I’m a lifetime lady.” God has finally awakened in you your worth to Him and the kingdom. Just tell that man, “It took a while, but now I know how much God loves and needs me…and how much you don’t.” Tell that man, “You have reached a dead end.” Dr.J. 

Marriage Ministry

“You’re More Than a Summer” by Dr.J.

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You Are More Than a Summer by Dr.J.4.12.14
You’re a Four Seasons Woman, not a summer fling. You are a year around, every year kinda thing. Don’t believe those lies about your summer self. You’re a Four Seasons Woman.

You are Fall. Your vibrant hues of reds and oranges are balanced by shades of the earth. As your leaves temporarily vanish, you anticipate the new growth that manifests itself in your future season. You can tone down the hottest heat for the warmest warmth. Your Fall makes your elevation even sweeter, your testimony even stronger. You are more than just a summer fling. You’re a Four Seasons Woman, a year around every year kinda thing.

You are Winter, a coolant so necessary when life’s circumstances and situations are ablazed with disappointments and hurt. Your ice freezes the blistering weapons of the enemy instantaneously. Your coldest disposition evokes the comfort of a blanket, a fireplace, an extended embrace. Your chill is so laid back it’s unreal.

You are Spring, a season that melts the ice away. You are stuck between cold and hot, but tepid you are NOT. The birds are singing because of your springy Spirit. Your new leaves forming, your buds sprouting-Your season of growth integral in your cycles of seasons. Your Spring has sprung into a perpetual season of prosperity. 

Yes, you are summer too but summer isn’t all of you. You are passionate, but even more compassionate. You are fun but you are even more favored. You can win the most heated philosophical debates but you are boiling with God’s wisdom. Your summer spirit sears through the coldest of hearts. Your scorching desire to please God is the core of your sizzling summer.

Whoever told you you were just a summer and whose summation was that you are only a vacation, a get away, a go to spot for getting hot…well, they lied. You are more than just a summer fling. You are everything. You’re a Four Seasons Woman. Dr.J.4.12.14

Restoration

“You Are Worthy” by Dr.J.

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There was a time when I had no self-worth and low self-esteem and of course that opened the door for the enemy. I had a flashback today to one particular situation (because there were quite a few) when a guy I was with really mistreated me. But I don’t blame him. As a matter a fact I’ve forgiven them all because they too were being used by the enemy to further oppress me, suck the life out of me, mistreat me and ultimately keep me from my destiny. Imagine how broken they all were to be used against me like that? 

Even if there isn’t physical abuse, emotional abuse hurts just as badly. It happens when you’re hidden and not courted, left in the house when you thought you were going to visit for a vacation, ignoring you and your calls and texts, and not speaking to you for days at a time as if you are invisible-and eventually you become invisible; when you’re spit on, cheated on with three other women, told you’re average, abandoned over and over…oppression.

But God. I finally looked up and cried out to God. He heard my cry. God brought me out of the slimy pit of unworthiness. He delivered me from oppressive relationships. God wants you to look up now. He wants to deliver you. You are a queen. 

See, it doesn’t matter what you’ve done, or what’s been done to you-rape, incest, molestation, adultery, homosexuality, or other secret sins or hidden diseases-you are worthy to the One who created you. It is time now. Let God heal you, deliver you, and bring you out now. You are a queen because your Father is the King. Dr.J.