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Singles' Ministry

“Friends With Benefits? No Thank You.” by Dr. Jené Walker

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Friends with benefits? How does it benefit a single wife to be a man’s friend while he has the benefit of coming and going to me and other women as he pleases; using me for my body and all my other assets while I fall deeply in love pretending to benefit from his friendship; giving me the benefit of 6 minutes of painful pleasure which leaves me empty on the inside; giving me the benefit of infections, smells, and diseases; and him getting the upgrade that comes with linking up with a suitable helper while I’m still not getting washed in the water of the Word. What is the benefit of mind games? What benefits are included with late night visits and no public confessions of his feelings for me? What does it benefit a woman to gain a man and lose her soul? And don’t be deceived single wives. It’s only fun or cute for a minute because if we’re believers, we aren’t wired to take this position forever. He created us to be wives.
Friends with benefits? No thank you. I will wait for the benefits of becoming a wife.  Jené Walker

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Marriage Ministry

“You’re More Than a Summer” by Dr.J.

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You Are More Than a Summer by Dr.J.4.12.14
You’re a Four Seasons Woman, not a summer fling. You are a year around, every year kinda thing. Don’t believe those lies about your summer self. You’re a Four Seasons Woman.

You are Fall. Your vibrant hues of reds and oranges are balanced by shades of the earth. As your leaves temporarily vanish, you anticipate the new growth that manifests itself in your future season. You can tone down the hottest heat for the warmest warmth. Your Fall makes your elevation even sweeter, your testimony even stronger. You are more than just a summer fling. You’re a Four Seasons Woman, a year around every year kinda thing.

You are Winter, a coolant so necessary when life’s circumstances and situations are ablazed with disappointments and hurt. Your ice freezes the blistering weapons of the enemy instantaneously. Your coldest disposition evokes the comfort of a blanket, a fireplace, an extended embrace. Your chill is so laid back it’s unreal.

You are Spring, a season that melts the ice away. You are stuck between cold and hot, but tepid you are NOT. The birds are singing because of your springy Spirit. Your new leaves forming, your buds sprouting-Your season of growth integral in your cycles of seasons. Your Spring has sprung into a perpetual season of prosperity. 

Yes, you are summer too but summer isn’t all of you. You are passionate, but even more compassionate. You are fun but you are even more favored. You can win the most heated philosophical debates but you are boiling with God’s wisdom. Your summer spirit sears through the coldest of hearts. Your scorching desire to please God is the core of your sizzling summer.

Whoever told you you were just a summer and whose summation was that you are only a vacation, a get away, a go to spot for getting hot…well, they lied. You are more than just a summer fling. You are everything. You’re a Four Seasons Woman. Dr.J.4.12.14