Why can’t I move on? Why hasn’t God sent me someone yet? Why am I struggling with loving the person I’m with? Why can’t I keep him out of my dreams? Why can’t I make love to my wife without fantasizing about my past women? Why do I have to shake my head feverishly in an attempt to get images of innumerable exes out of my head, to no avail? Why is it difficult to be satisfied with “normal regular relations” opposed to strange, abnormal, defiling and debasing relations? Why is it difficult for me to be pleased in my marital relationship? Could it be that you’re struggling with ties from previous relationships and relations?
The Holy Spirit defined ungodly souls ties as spiritual connections that have developed from ungodly physical connections. We’ve been involved with men or women who are not our spouses and the relationships or relations have left a spiritual residue. The residue makes it difficult to move on freely in our God ordained relationships because we haven’t been purified and purged from our pasts.
The Holy Spirit gave me the process for breaking ungodly soul ties: 1) Break the physical ties. 2) Make up your mind. 3) Increase your spiritual warfare.
Break the physical ties. You have to stop having sexual relationships with people who do not spiritually belong to you. God ordained marriage between one woman and one man. To have sexual relations in any other relationship is out of order. When we do, we suffer from a sticky thick spiritual residue. We have to break other physical connections too such as keeping pictures, texts, emails, clothing, or other items from persons from our past. Break all physical ties.
You must also have a made up mind. You cannot continue to straddle the fence about whether or not you’re going to let go or go back “just one more time.” If your mind isn’t resolute, the rest of you won’t be either. The way you are transformed is by the renewing of your mind. If you continue to think on the worldly things with the people from your past, your mind won’t be transformed and it can’t be renewed. If the Holy Spirit has already revealed to you that the relationship it not designed by the Creator for you, what else is there to think about? Make up your mind and be obedient. Let it go.
Finally, read, study, pray, listen to the Holy Spirit and fast. When dealing with strongholds in your life that have been impossible for you to overcome with your regular prayer life, you have to intensify your spiritual warfare. Add fasting and confessions to your spiritual warfare to breakthrough the power of the enemy with these spirits of lust and other spirits that have been haunting you. If the spiritual tie isn’t created by God, it has to be broken. You don’t want to be connected with anyone God didn’t create for you. It is time to let go. Dr.J.
Click here to watch the video the Holy Spirit gave me entitled “Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties.”